An Introduction to Spirit Guides: A Gentle Guide for Beginners

 

 

Have you ever had a moment where you just knew something without really knowing why? Or maybe you've felt a peaceful presence when things seemed uncertain? These could be signs of a spirit guide—a helpful companion from the spiritual realm, quietly supporting you along life’s journey.
 

What Are Spirit Guides?

In simple terms, spirit guides are spiritual beings whose purpose is to help guide us. Some people think of them as guardian angels, while others believe they’re wise souls, perhaps ancestors or energies, that look out for us. The idea is that everyone has at least one guide, but we might not always notice them because their help is often subtle—like a soft whisper rather than a loud voice.
 

Why Do We Have Spirit Guides?

Life can be unpredictable, and spirit guides offer a form of support that’s gentle but meaningful. They're not here to control us or make decisions for us, but they can provide little nudges in the right direction—like a gut feeling or a sign when you need it most. Their guidance might come during big life moments or even just when you're feeling lost or unsure.
 

My Experience with Spirit Guides: How I Know They’re With Me

Over the years, I’ve had several experiences that made me believe in the presence of spirit guides. Sometimes, their guidance isn’t loud or obvious—it’s just a quiet feeling, something in your gut telling you what’s happening or what’s about to happen.

One night, for example, I was coming home from visiting a hospital. It was late, and I was chatting with the taxi driver. Suddenly, a few fire engines passed us. In that moment, I felt this wave of sickness wash over me, like something was wrong. The taxi driver noticed and asked me what was up. I told him, “Those fire engines—they’re for my house.” He looked at me, surprised, and asked how I knew. The truth was, I just knew—I couldn’t explain it.

When we got to my street, my worst fear was confirmed. My house was on fire. We lost everything that night—photos, memories, everything. The taxi driver was stunned that I had known, but I believe it was my spirit guide warning me. It’s not something you can explain easily to others; it’s more of a feeling that comes over you, almost like a nudge from the universe.

That’s what spirit guides do—they help you, even in moments when you might not realize it. It’s important to trust those gut feelings, especially when something feels off. The more you listen to your instincts, the stronger that connection with your spirit guide becomes.

Another time, my cousin called me in a panic. She had left her house and said she was at a pub, but before she could tell me which one, her phone cut off. I rushed to the area where she lived, which had many pubs, but something inside me just knew which one she was in. I didn’t have any logic to explain it—just a feeling pulling me in the right direction. Sure enough, I found her in the pub I had felt drawn to. That’s the kind of instinct you can’t ignore, and it’s exactly how spirit guides work—they give you these subtle hints, leading you where you need to go.

Years ago, I had a feeling about my dog, who was pregnant. I just knew the exact day and time she would have her puppies, almost like I could sense it coming. The same thing happened when I was having my own children—I predicted the gender of each of them before they were born, and I even knew the gender of my grandchild before their birth. These moments aren’t just coincidences; they’re examples of intuition, nudged by the spirit guide that’s been with me all my life.

The more you trust those feelings, the stronger your connection to your spirit guide becomes. Whether it’s something small, like knowing which pub to go to, or something as big as predicting your child’s gender, spirit guides are there, quietly supporting you and offering guidance.
 

Connecting with Loved Ones: My Journey as a Medium

In addition to the everyday guidance I’ve received from my spirit guides, I’ve also had personal experiences connecting with my mother and grandmother, both of whom have passed away. These moments have confirmed for me that I am indeed a medium who can communicate with the dead.

The first time I felt my mother’s presence was shortly after her passing. I was in a quiet moment, and suddenly, I felt a warm, loving energy enveloping me. It was as if she was right there, whispering to me, reassuring me that she was okay. It was a comfort during a time of deep sorrow and loss.

Similarly, my grandmother's presence has been felt during significant moments in my life. There have been times when I’ve sensed her wisdom guiding my decisions, or felt her encouragement during challenging times. These experiences have not only brought me comfort but have also deepened my understanding of the spiritual realm.

I believe that these connections show that our loved ones are never truly gone. They may have transitioned to another state of being, but their energy remains, and they can communicate with us in various ways. For me, this has been through feelings, visions, or sometimes even a sudden thought that feels like it came from them.

If you’ve experienced similar moments, trust that you may have the ability to connect with the other side as well. It’s all part of understanding your intuition and the spiritual guides who are always around you, offering support and love.
 

Why I Choose Not to Use Ouija Boards

With all of my experiences connecting with spirit guides and my loved ones who have passed, I’ve come to a firm belief: I don’t need tools like Ouija boards to communicate with the other side, and neither do you.

Ouija boards can be intriguing, but they can also invite unpredictable energies and entities. Having had direct experiences with spirit communication, I find it unnecessary to use a board to reach out. Instead, I rely on my intuition and the natural connections I’ve built over the years.

Our instincts are powerful, and they can guide us in communicating with spirit guides and loved ones in a safe and meaningful way. Trusting your own feelings and insights allows for a more genuine connection, one that doesn’t involve potentially risky tools.

If you feel a pull towards the spiritual realm, focus on nurturing your intuition and exploring your own innate abilities. You might find that the best communication comes from within, supported by your spirit guides who are always there to assist you.
 

Mastering Your Intuition: The Path to Becoming a Medium

As you continue to pay attention to your gut instincts and those little nudges from your spirit guides, you’ll find that you start to develop a deeper connection with your intuition. When you notice a feeling that something is about to happen—like a phone call from a friend, or a sense that you should reach out to someone—and it turns out to be true, that’s a powerful moment.

These experiences are more than just coincidences; they’re signs that you’re tuning into your intuitive abilities. The more you practice listening to those feelings, the more attuned you’ll become to the guidance your spirit guides are providing.

Once you feel confident in recognizing and trusting your gut instincts, you’re well on your way to becoming a medium. This doesn’t mean you have to take on a formal role; it simply means you’re opening up to the spiritual connections around you. Whether it’s receiving messages, feeling energies, or sensing the presence of guides, mastering your intuition is the first step on that journey.